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March 21, 2012 Marie Leave a Comment

I’ve never been a runner. Certainly not a runner of any kind of distance. I never played sports in school to build up much of an endurance. We ran warm-up laps in marching band and those never came easy. Those Nike shoes I had were just for looks, not actually for the purpose they were built for.

I’ve never been a runner, but I’ve always envied those who can and do. Those people who jog up and down my street making it look so effortless.  Those who can go out there and slam their feet to the pavement for more than a mile. Those who can do so without taking a break to walk after a few minutes.

I’ve never been a runner, but I’m trying. Which I guess is the important thing. There was a point where this came easier (not easy, by any means, but easier than now). There was a point in my life where a 1 minute jog was no big deal. Now it’s a struggle. But I’m trying. I’m pushing. I’m tired, and hungry, and my body aches all over. I have to do this. I need to do this.

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Unpinning

March 13, 2012 Marie 1 Comment

I deleted my Pinterest account today. Quite frankly, I’m just over the whole thing.

The problem I faced with my own account was what I like to call “I’ve seen this shit before” syndrome (which is usually stated in frustration while perusing the latest pins followed with a big sigh). It goes like this: friend A pins an item. Mutual friends B and C both like the item enough to repin it to their own boards. Because I follow all 3 friends, I see the same idea 3x when I look at the pin feed. I’m guilty of this myself, but perhaps I’m maybe the only one fed up enough with it?

And then there’s the fruitless pinning. The things that warranted a pin, but you never get around to actually doing. Recipes, crafts, etc. Or the pins of home styles, or clothes, or jewelry… Those pins that make me long for things because staring at beautiful photos of beautiful houses made me feel like what I have isn’t good enough.

What was supposed to inspire me was, instead, making me feel absolutely horrible. Because then I had this internal fight with myself over my desire to be happy/content/more minimalist/un-consumer-ish and the new desire to have all this unnecessary stuff.

So I’m done and over it and moving on. It’s better for my creativity, my wallet, and my mental health.

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The daily struggle

February 16, 2012 Marie Leave a Comment

The alarm sounds promptly at 5:40, and I promptly hit “dismiss”. Ten minutes later the cycle repeats. 5:40, 50, 6:00, and even 6:10. I lay in bed, in a world between dreams and reality, nestled in the warm sheets and blankets. Sometimes I sleep until 6:30, other times I grab my phone and check my email and social media. In the comfort of bed even the worst emails seem ok.

Then I rush around the house – do I wear this or that? Didn’t I just wear this? Why am I taking so long to find an outfit, and who was the unorganized genius that didn’t put laundry away? Oh wait that’s me. What to take for lunch? Who forgot to buy actual food and plan ahead? Me, again. Reheat the coffee I brewed yesterday. Add lots of creamer. Rush out the door.

Get to work and immediately feel stupid. I don’t deserve this job. I’m lucky to have it, and it’s true I applied for it and was hired into it. Someone somewhere saw something in me, but what that is I don’t know or understand. All I feel is stupidity. All I see are mistakes, and coworkers that have created a nickname for me (which I’ve tried to play off as my rebel alter ego) so that  when they say “oh that Regina” I assume they’re talking about  something I fucked up. I live in constant fear of losing my job. Stick me in front of a computer for design and I feel in my element. I can pick up on programming pretty quickly. I can look at lines of code and understand what it’s saying.  But remembering what to do when and where in my current job is apparently ridiculously difficult for me. It gets to me, this feeling of stupidity. It beats me down mentally. It works on me all day long. It makes me feel broken and worthless.  I find myself second guessing everything. I feel plain stupid and like I’m one mistake away from being unemployed even when no one has given me any cause to believe so. I used to cry at my desk because I hated my old job so much. Now I cry in the bathroom because I hate how my job makes me feel.

At the end of the day it’s a relief to be back on the road home. That first step though the door to the house is like I’m shedding a former life. I’m back where I’m comfortable. I’m back where I feel smart and intelligent. I’m back where people don’t make me feel inferior.

Exhausted, I crash on the couch and knit if I’m not too tired. Dinner is an afterthought. Sometimes I clean, but chances are good that my house is a mess. I’m trying to repair the damage in preparation for the next work day.  I’d love to be the kind of person who has it all together. The kind of person who can work a job and still come home and live the next 5 hours of the day to fullest.

But some most days it’s just enough to survive.

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Fueling my late night work binge

February 12, 2012 Marie Leave a Comment

I’m up late working. I’ve had a serious lack of motivation/inspiration lately, and there are a lot of times that I sit down at the computer ready to get down to business and just can’t seem to find my groove. I end up wasting more of the day than working, which is unfortunate. So I’m just going with the flow.

I can’t find any videos online of the actual song, but that’s okay. I’m a sucker for the piano. And the original Parachute Musical song has strings… which just makes my heart swell. Which reminds me… I really need to get our piano tuned up/fixed so I can get back to re-learning how to play. I miss it dearly, and it’s difficult to play with sticky keys, sour notes, and the like.

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